GaySeniors.Info BLOG

Hello and best wishes and thanks once again to all our members of the GAY SENIORS.INFO family.  We are and are going to be working even harder this year ( as we have in the past ) on creating even more exciting things for you on http://GAYSENIORS.INFO

Please remember this is an interactive web site dedicated to seniors and those who someday will become seniors. We went thru an upgrade. Now you can stay logged in and the profile view is much improved also. If you go to ’My data ‘and go down to ‘describe yourself’,  you can change the who you are and what you’re looking for  section of your profile. Don’t miss checking out our SEXY newest links on our index page and profile home page. These links contain HOT SENIOR videos that you can watch in the privacy of your own home and also helps us to remain a totally FREE site. So if you notice a few little changes that’s  part of the upgrade. Don’t worry it will make it easier and better for you. We also VALUE YOUR OPINION. Please write us and let us know what you think and what you would like to see. The more information and feedback we get from you the more we can help you to have the best Senior site possible.

Checking the profiles and your messages from time to time will keep you informed about what’s going on. That very special person may be out there waiting just for you. It is also a good idea to change your profile photos from time to time. Those that do change them on a regular basis seem to get the best response. Also adding a FREE video or audio clip to your profile will really help. If you have any questions on how to do so email us and we will be glad to help you out. WE DO CARE, and are here for you. We are also toying with the idea to add a FREE Video Chat Room to the site. The GREAT thing about that is that there will be no monthly charge at all. Please keep in touch and let us know how you’re doing, what you would like to be doing, and what you would like to see. You can always reach us by email at either olfunguy@comcast.net or RobManfred@gayseniors.info we welcome your comments and suggestions and Questions. This is your site too so please pass the word to all your friends. The more guys that participate and become active FREE members the better the site will be.

Remember were just two older men working hard to keep you hard and informed

Sincerely

Rob and Manny

httP://GaySeniors.Info

Why are so many Gay seniors so secretive about putting information and photos on a private site like http://gayseniors.info but will out themselves on FaceBook Twitter and all other information highway sites to any one? It seems like just a crazy fact.
Privacy is going out the window. Sites like Gayseniors.info have a privacy code and you can’t get in without being a registered free member. It seems logical to me if you don’t want someone to find you you don’t link up with 2 to 3 hundred friends that might or might not know you’r Gay. Or do you realize that they can put any photos of you in any position these open sites like twitter and Facebook etc. Our site is also for those who are seniors and those admirers who someday will become seniors. Your privacy is one of our first and foremost objectives gayseniors.info. Please let us know what your thoughts on this fact are. What do you prefer? Privacy or coming crashing out of the closet without even knowing it with photos on someone else’s profile. I prefer the Private sites.

Being a single older senior bisexual or old gay man in the modern world of the Internet can be daunting for some. Suddenly single seniors face unique challenges when it comes to dating. However, loneliness and a desire for companionship drives many to pursue partners online and through the posting of personal ads. The good news is that you are not alone. Losing a partner and finding yourself suddenly single from the age of 50 on is a fact of life for millions of people who are also looking for a new love.For some people, things may seem extremely casual and even heathen compared to the formalities of yesterday. Times may have changed, but it is important to remember that people have stayed the same. Be sensible but don’t be afraid to take a chance, post your profile on gayseniors.info (or similar sites) or ask that special friend in your social sphere if he would like to go out on a date. One of the great things about being older is that you can dispense with a lot of the anxiety and anticipation that plagues younger relationships. You have nothing to fear because nobody has anything that you haven’t seen before. Sifting through the personal ads is a skill that you will have to learn in order to become an expert player in today’s dating game. Make a habit of scanning gayseniors.info profiles every day, in case an ad appeals to you. Make sure that before you respond to any ad that you use an alias, never reveal your phone number and address and that you are writing to an individual who would be a realistic partner for you.

People who take out ads in the personal section of the paper are usually people just like you. Determine first, before you scan the profiles, whether you are looking for a serious relationship, a lover or just a companion to go to the movies with. Many ads will overtly state right in the body of the copy exactly the kind of relationship they are seeking. Narrowing your criteria and the idea of what kind of relationship you are searching for usually manifests the best results. For instance, if you can’t stand watching football, don’t respond to ads from men or women who are into sports. If you are searching for a friend or companion only through the personal ads, start with profiles that state this specifically. These ads will usually use such phrases as “seeking a friend”, “no commitments”, “for fun times”, “want to have a good time”, “not looking for a relationship”, “just want to spend some time with you” or “seeking a companion”. There are various words used expressing friendship, companionship and those just looking to date. Use these expressions and words to help you sort through the personal ads narrowing your decision among the many people listed.

Lastly, be sensible and realistic. Not everyone is who they seem to be on the internet. Don’t send monies or gifts to those you do not know. The internet has made searching for new contacts and friendships easier, but it has made a “scammers” world easier too!

WELCOME TO THE NEWLY NAMED AND IMPROVED SENIOR AND ADMIRER WEB SITE FORMERLY XXX-SENIORS.COM    NOW   http://GAYSENIORS.INFO
NOTHING HAS CHANGED BUT THE NAME AND THE LOOK !

We are very close to hit the 10,000 free member mark on the web site. The two old guys Rob and Manny are working hard to give you the best Totally FREE Senior and Admirer web site possible. To do this we changed our name and are now called http://GAYSENIORS.INFO

We have been working hard to update and add a fresh new look to the web site. We are still in over 30 Languages and are worldwide. We appreciate you telling all your friends about the site. The site that truly cares about each and every member. We consider you a part of the new and improved GAYSENIORS.INFO family and would like to THANK YOU for spreading the word to everyone about the site.

We would like very much to give you a few pointers to help you get the maximum response on your profile and photos.

#1     Please put a photo on your profile. Others would like to see what you look like and it will only enhance the possibilities of meeting someone special. Any type of shot of you would really help you meet people on the site. No matter what you might think you look like, I know that there are guys who will really respond to your photo and profile

#2    Change your photos occasionally, this will also help to promote interest in yourself. The same photo all the time on your profile won’t get as much attention as changeing your photos from time to time.

#3    We would like to make sure you put your correct age on your profile. This is a REAL SENIOR site and your age doesn’t matter as long as you’re over 21 years old. We still find guys in there 30’s who put their age at 72 etc. We also find guys in there 70’s who try to make out as if there only 29. Please put your correct age and be proud of it no matter if your 21 or 91.

#4    Being more ACTIVE on the site is also an important part of getting to know other seniors and admirers. Please go to other parts of the site like the BLOG, FORUM, VIDEO CLIPS and our extensive PHOTO GALLERY. Like the entire site all these features are FREE. You can also send a FREE E-CARD to any of the members if you like. The cards will change from time to time and are a GREAT way of saying Hi to someone new or someone special. If you respond to these features by commenting and participating on the site it will broaden your chances of meeting new people, making new friends and in general having more fun. Sending us articles, photos’ and stories about what’s going on in your area of the world will only extend your interest to others. You can submit any type of article and photo or Video clip etc to us at seniors@gayseniors.info We welcome any Groups and organizations that would like to send us photos of their meetings and information about their club or group. It would be our pleasure and honor to post them on the site. This is one way when other members of the site come to your area that they can look you or your groups up and possibly join you in some of the fun activities while in your area.  In our travels, we have met a number of members in the flesh and would love to meet more. It also can create interest in you as a person and help you reach others who have like ideas and thoughts. We welcome your comments and thoughts. This is your site, become a part of it.

#5    Please also be very careful on this and any other site.
There are a number of BAD and UNSCRUPULOUS people out there on every web site that are not for real or too good to be true.

(A) PLEASE BE CAREFUL that you don’t send anyone any one any money. Do not give out your credit card number or any other personal or financial information to any members.

(B) Be aware of scams, who want you to send money to them for any one sick or dying etc.

(C) PLEASE read the informative posting on our BLOG about scams on the internet.

WE VALUE YOU AS A MEMBER AND A FRIEND AND WANT TO HAVE YOU HAVE THE GREATEST TIME ON THE SITE YOU CAN HAVE. YOU’RE VERY IMPORTANT TO US. WE REALLY CARE ABOUT EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU.

HUGS from the 2 crazy old guys with a dream to create and operate a SENIOR and ADMIRERS’ web site that is TOTALLY FREE. A senior site that INFORMS and CREATES A SAFE ENVIRONMENT for all its members and friends to meet and exchange ideas and information, photos etc. A site that truly shows the Gay Senior man to have a heart, mind and spirit that transcends all ages and boundaries. Thanks for passing the word about the site to all your friends. The more members we have the more fun YOU will have.

Your friends ROB AND MANNY
webmasters of  http://GAYSENIORS.INFO

A romance scam essentially occurs when strangers pretend romantic intentions, gain the affection of victims, and then use that goodwill to gain access to their victims’ money and bank account or by getting them to commit financial fraud on their behalf.

Romance scams rely on creating strong emotional ties that by-pass logical thought and appeal strongly and exclusively on emotions. These feelings are triggered by using appealing photos, dream profiles on online dating sites, persuasive and flattering words, poetry and love song lyrics. The strategy is essentially to get victims to fall in love and lust so strongly that they want to be with the scammers by whatever means possible. The promise of marriage is very common in this con because they know that no one will refuse to do a small favour for their ‘husband’. Marriage (or the promise of it) also increases the element of trust and the resulting mind control. The key motivator for the victim is love and romance. The motivation for the perpetrator in is greed.

Most of these scams originate from West Africa (especially Nigeria) although they are becoming increasingly common in Russia and Eastern Europe. Another emerging region is Thailand, the Philippines, or any other country where ‘mail order brides’ are available.

written by Rob 

I am so happy to hear that some of the people out there are also interested in other parts of the site than the NAKED NASTY LEWD parts. Hehehehe that’s not to say that those parts don’t have there place but they aren’t the total of the whole but a small part of the entire site.

I believe in an active participation in the senior years does a lot to make a man feel young and alive. Active participation doesn’t mean taking a Viagra and Sitting back till you find someone to JO with on line. It also doesn’t mean not doing anything but bitching and crying about your aches and pains either. It also doesn’t mean joining clubs and organizations and being a grouchy old man who complains all the time and doesn’t do anything but feel he deserves to be catered to. I have been to several of these clubs myself and I have seen first hand some of these guys who like the perks but don’t want to really get involved in the group. Then when they are asked to do something they feel it’s beneath their dignity to do it.  Really getting actively involved means more than just departing some of our sage wisdom and life experiences to others in the community it also means getting off your butt ( a part that so many of us seem to think is just for sex ) and doing something constructive. There are so many older gays in the community who are alone and forgotten. You meet some of them online ( If they are lucky enough to have a computer ) or you hear about them from friends. They are all around us. Some are bitter and lonely, some are hopeful and alone, some are sad and rejected. But they all crave the friendship and companionship that we have to give as an active member of our gay society.

I feel it’s a real shame when I go to senior nursing homes that contain both gay and straight men and women. When you are there to entertain you see so many gay people from the old school that would love to be able to, just once more talk to someone about there lifestyle without feeling like they are going to be rejected buy the straight community and a lot of the gay community like they were in the past. They want to chat freely with someone about their life experiences without having to say ( My Friend and I ) or putting a she when they mean a he etc. I have a great deal of affection for those that volunteer at places like this. They do make a real difference. Some times freedom doesn’t mean Life Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness. It should mean Lifestyles, Liberty, and Everyone’s Pursuit of their own Happiness, as long as it doesn’t hurt any one else in their quest.

We started this site with a lot of things in mind but one of them was to create an active area for older gay men to participate in. I am so happy to see some of you ( thou only a very few ) are taking the initiative to become a part of this part of the site.

This site is here for you. Use all the parts of it to become a fuller active person in your senior years, or as you head for your senior years. If you want to bitch and moan don’t do it here. Be constructive not destructive. If you want to tell people of your experiences that you had ( in and out of bed ) you can do it here. If you are a younger guy and want to tell others what you think about the older gay community, do it here. If you are lonely and just want to get something off your chest, do it here. This is why were here. We need your ideas and knowledge, your support and your comments and ideas to make this site better and better every day. Remember you’re here for us and were here for you.
Participate and you will see and make a real difference.
WE REALLY DO CARE. Let’s together create something for everyone. Let’s show we are more than just superficial Dirty Old Men who take Prozac and Viagra. Pass the word to all your friends that this part of the site exists and is it’s here for them also. I know you’re out there. We need you to contribute and become active now and also in the future. Today is the day for us to start to make a real difference.

I will be checking and looking for you in the future on here.
Let us know what you think, were waiting………