About a week ago I found a very interesting Blog, which fits into this site very well. Go there and read what this MD has to say about gay and also about seniors and relationship with seniors. I was very thrilled reading through the site. Also have a look to the links, most of them are also very interesting. May be you like it too – please tell us what you think.
http://www.magneticfire.com
Here just some lines from the blog owner - L Olson MD

Loren Olson MD
“For some men, the sexual attraction to another man is unexpected, unwanted and yet unavoidable. Like a moth to a flame, some men are magnetically drawn to other men, often after having made considerable efforts made to resist it. It is like a magnetic fire.
Mature gay men are a diverse group and include all ethnicities, religions, and socio-economic and political groups. For mature gay men who have delayed coming out until mid-life, coming out is much different than it is for younger men.
It is my goal to help others remove some of the psychological barriers so they may reach harmony and peace within and in relationship to others. Since your experiences are important and a largely neglected part of social research, I look forward to hearing from you.
Come, join with me in the search for understanding, acceptance and reconciliation.”
“A non-scientific survey done by a convenience sampling of younger men a few years ago found that the thing which attracted younger men to older men most often was “looks, demeanor and physique,” but the looks they are attracted to aren’t what the stereotype would predict. “Looks” was followed by “sexuality,” “wisdom and experience,” and “softness.” Lowest on the list were “money” and “stability.”
These findings may surprise older men who suspicious of the motives of the younger man and find it difficult to trust that those handsome young men are seriously interested in them for their looks, wisdom and softness. They have become used to seeing themselves as older men who have lost some, if not a lot, of their vitality, and many detest the changes in their bodies, expecting that any potential partner would abhor them just as much. Many are surprised that their physical appearance is precisely what the younger man finds attractive. As one young man said, however, “Mature men just make me horny.”