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 My name is Rob and I was born in Wisconsin 1945. I have been Bi but now as I matured I realized that I am truly a gay male. Up until several years ago I never had a real life partner.

I have been in show business for over 58 years and was literally born in a trunk ( as the saying goes ). I was brought up in a show biz family and because of my work I never really settled down. I was in different cities and lifestyles so much. Because of the nature of the business I never really found much more than a lot of one night stands and was also getting older and I figured was past my prime. Being a Big older Bi guy living in a gay world looking for answers and companionship. Searching a lot of different web sites and got rude comments from the younger guys and women. I must admit some of them like guys named Chris and Turttle and Gals like Patty and Nancy were really great and supported me but nothing more. I figured I was over the hill and thought it was all down hill from here.

I tried to go to bars and even Church to meet friends but that didn’t work also and figured I was destined to be old and alone for the rest of my life. Then on the internet I found a European chat room with a number of mature guys on it I started to chat with some of the guys on the site. I told them how I felt that I was over the hill and that I was destined to be alone for the rest of  my life. Well to make a long story short. I finally started talking to a very handsome man 7 years my junior that was living in Vienna by the name of Manfred. He lived in Austria but also had a place in Florida and was coming to the states for a few months and wanted to meet me.

Well to say it was love at first sight was an understatement. He is very very handsome, kind and mature and had a smile that would melt ice. He is caring, honest and makes me feel good about myself. We have been together ever since. I feel like a kid again. I now know that dreams do come true. Because of a web site we are now a couple since 2003.

Manfred and I talked and realized that there must be so many other lost older and younger straight, bi, trans and gay guys out there who want to become a part of something more than just a sex meeting place, or a place for younger guys to take advantage of older guys and vice versa. I truly believe that there is a growing need for more information and fellowship in the older community for males. I think there are a lot of gay, bi, straight, baby boomers that are now becoming our confused senior citizens. They are looking for and need more outlets for there life styles. This is one of the main reasons for this web site.

       There was also a REAL NEED for a web site that isn’t just Gay, Straight, Bi sexual etc. Straight/Bi guys looking for the right person in there life are afraid to be seen on a Gay web site. Gays on the other had are not comfortable with straight web sites or gay web sites that contain women. Our web site is open to every male over the age of 21. This way when people are seen on our site they don’t have to be ashamed  or explain why they are here. They can just say it is an Adult Senior web site open to all 21+ males. After all just like me who knows what happiness is around the corner. That special someone for you could be on our site waiting for you right now. 

My name is Manfred, born in Vienna 1952. About several years ago I was surfing the web and spotted a sight for older guys. I started to check it out and came across an older gentleman ( Rob ). He was very secretive and didn’t tell me a lot about himself. He seemed to have low self esteem because of his age and his being a big guy also and found out we had a lot in common though. He was living in central Florida and I also have a home in Florida and visited there for several months each year for the past 15 years. He seemed a little confused about what he was looking for but we did find a lot of common ground. We exchanged e-mails and chatted on one of the video chat rooms and telephone for several weeks. He seemed to be afraid of getting older. I found this a charming quality and asked him why he was afraid? He said he had just lost two friends and one was younger than him. This bothered him a lot.  He had some health issues and knew he wasn’t getting any younger.

        I found his honesty and frankness refreshing. He did lie about his age on line because he thought I would not like him at his real age. So many men try to be what they aren’t on line. I find this disappointing. I find mature men so much more exciting and desirable. He did finally confess and told him I even liked him more because of his age and honesty about it. Even though it wasn’t to long ago I lost my former partner I thought we should meet. I also was looking for a new friend in my life. I found out that he was retired and so was I. I found out we liked a lot of the same things. He was an entertainer and I liked entertainment a lot. He was a lot younger than the other men in my life but it didn’t really seem to make that much difference to me. It was a funny thing. He was worried about him being too old for me and I was concerned about him being so young.

        We both decided to get a motel room in his area so we could meet and see what happens. Well we hit it off right away. The more we chatted the more honest we were with each other. We were both looking for someone in our life and it looked like we had found it. It needed a little work, but what relationship doesn’t? I asked him after a few weeks if we could become partners and he agreed. We haven’t been out of each others sight since.

         He has lost weight and is exercising with me as often as we can. I have stopped smoking ( he hates smoking ) he did it for me and I did it for him. We are also working together on this web site.

         I had a successful senior web site in Austria a number of years ago and still receive thank you notes from some of the people I helped find their life partners. We both think that a web site dedicated to the Mature crowd and the people who like them is very very important. That is why we are doing what we are doing. So others know they aren’t alone. No one should grow any older being scared and lonely. We are and continue working together with your help to make all our lives as wonderful as ours